Thursday, September 25, 2008

Blow jobs and chaplin

i was with a friend this past weekend. After 24 hrs of beers and margaritas and way too much bad dancing she confessed she would like to have a penis for like 30 minutes. just enough time to experience what it like for man to get a blow job. kindly a friend offered to accompany her to the bathroom and describe to her his every sensation but she polity declined. I was amazed at his confidence in his ability to articulate during such experience and even took it as a slight to her skills that he could not be so easily distracted.

Surprisingly a few other woman with us confessed the same curiosity. Which to me was an interesting tell. It made me suspect that their own satisfaction as woman and experience with getting oral sex was questionable and/or perhaps their confidence in giving it. its a common enough issue with woman which led to girl talk and very comfortable with himself guy friend throwing his two cents in every now and then.

my friends curiosity was purely limited to this singular male experience. other then that she really didn't give much thought to any other aspect of the male exsistance.It was almost like what else is there ....
other then penis's what else do man have we dont???

I think also it was an issue of control . a curiosity about this moment of control and pleasure as only a man can experience.
Issues of male vulnerability, like childhood surprise boners or developing body hair really wasn't of interest. a man first kiss or showering after gym or masturbation wasn't a curious a subject.
Maybe this was most of all telling of their own character and vulnerability. a need to recover some lost sense of control they have experienced.
Do man ever wonder such things? as mysterious as we are do they ever consider trading places?
I my self have only on been curious as to wat its like to be a man when i read autobiography of comedians i admire. currently i am reading Chaplin. And from time to time i do wonder what it like to them at their greatest. but that's a road of thought completly of this course.
blow job ....huh... now i do wonder? but it will just be a wonder as i am sure it can be even more a wonder for men when they are trying to transverse the wonders of the female body. good luck
but blow jobs....blow jobs struck a personal interest for theses woman.

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